When Does Sex Become a Chore?

This question is easy. It becomes a chore when you allow it to.

That’s pretty simple. The hard question is “how” do you prevent it from becoming a chore? How do you NOT grumble and groan when your lover ask for it AGAIN?

Well, for starters, stop grumbling. Start getting excited. For Pete’s Sake, actually enjoy it.

This is harder for women to obtain then for men, DUH! Men usually ejaculate while women are left laying on the bed imagining a super orgasm. It seems to be a dream, a far fetched dream because maybe you haven’t had a orgasm in a very long time. Maybe you forgot what a orgasm really feels like. The earth shattering, toe curling, head rolling orgasm that makes you feel like you are going to blow up from the inside out.

Sweet, Sweet Orgasm.

I must tell you. This isn’t that far fetched. It could be the time to introduce potions or Toys into your love life. *gasp* You may be thinking: “Did she just say TOYS in the bedroom?”and I am saying: “Oh, I sure did say toys in the bedroom!!!!”

Stop whining. Listen up and pay close attention. Toys and potions paired together along with the help and excitement of doing it with your lover will be a sure fire way to wake that beast of an orgasm that is just dying to get out. Trying to escape you but you just won’t let it.

Release your inner orgasm. Find some potions and toys in the comfort of your own home. Via internet. Some great websites are:

www.adameve.com

or of course go to my personal favorite (because I sell “magic in a bottle” and I also sell toys!!!)

www.partygals.biz

Now the next step would be to introduce your new “friend” to your lover. This could be tricky at times. Especially if you are a man and you are wanting to bring the “buzz” into the bedroom, your woman may dismiss the idea all together. But women need to make sure their male lover is not offended or take it personally. They may think that they just isn’t doing it for ya. That their “man dangler” isn’t the “magic wand” they once thought it was.

You are going to have to stroke the ego a bit here ladies. Make sure they know that they are magnificent lovers and that you are satisfied with their tally whacker however, you want to mix up the routine a bit. It could take awhile. You may have to stroke the ego for some time. But eventually, they will be willing and will understand that you are only you.

Just stay away from anal toys for awhile. Those are only for the brave and the experienced. Some men may pucker up and head for the hills if you go down that route. Just trying to help.