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To Try or Not to Try: Benefits of Introducing Toys to Your Relationship |
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First things first, the use of a toy in no way implies you are a freak, your marriage is bad or your man is incompetent. Buy why? Why go for something different when the "real thing" is just fine. Well sit back, put your feet up and let me explain.
Many times in my career I have heard women say that "It's against God" , "My husbands just fine the way he is" or "My boyfriend doesn't let me have one". While you may feel that all of that is true please know that I do completely respect your opinion however, I would like to take the opportunity to show you that there is an entirely new way for you to add a little "oomph" to your love life.
Sex Toys come is all different forms but each type has the same purpose, to enhance. So instead of calling it a "Sex Toy" lets call it a " Romance Enhancement" from this point .Sounds better already , doesn't it? So what can a romance enhancement really do for you , you say? Oh the endless possibilities!
1. Clitoral Stimulation. 85% of woman cannot reach an orgasm unless they have some sort of clitoral stimulation. During sex this area is rarely stimulated with out the use of an enhancement.
2. Reaching orgasm quicker or at the same time as your partner. The use of an enhancement can actually make you able to reach orgasm at the same time as your man. Imagine how much fun that could be!
3.Bringing a couple closer. Using an enhancement together with your man allows him to explore your body in different ways. By doing so, he will learn new exciting ways and exactly where you like to be touched.
4.Improving Sex . Romance enhancements can improve all different kinds of sex play. Oral, Masturbation, intercourse and even Mutual Masturbation.
Ok so now that you know how it can improve your love life you still may have a few mental obstacles to over come.
1. The Husband/Boyfriend is uncomfortable with it. This one is actually very easy. First off, you will want to purchase something that does not necessarily look like a penis or that could be intimidating to your man. You may want to start off buy purchasing a bullet, a vibrating C ring or a masturbation sleeve for him. All 3 of these items can be used as a couple and do not look threatening. Encourage him to use the items on you and vice versa. Use these items as a couple slowly and then once both players are comfortable you can take it to the next level.
2. It's against God. if you are married, I encourage you to check out www.themarriagebed.com This site will go over what's ok and what's not ok according to the Bible. If you have questions or your just not sure of what your doing or thinking of doing is acceptable in a Christian way of life, give that site a try. It really breaks down each type of act and lets you know what the Bible's stand is. Ultimately you will need to make the final decision for whatever you feel is acceptable but this will give you a great point of view.
3.I think may feel weird using something like this, its just not natural and I don't know if I need it. You know your body better than anyone else. If you are 100% satisfied with your sexual health then you are absolutely right you don't NEED anything. Remember these are "enhancements" not necessities. These items are created to take what you have and make it better, kind of like adding a spice! How much spice you choose to add is entirely up to your own personal taste.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this article and stay tuned next month for information on "How to give a sensual massage" (http://www.heatherspleasures.com/SensualMassage.htm)In the mean time if you would like assistance picking out a Romance Enhancement to spice up your love life, please do not hesitate to call or email us We will be happy to assist you. You may also want to check out " Choosing the Right Type of Toy:" (http://www.heatherspleasures.com/typeoftoy.htm)
To purchase any of the mentioned products or to browse or our large collection of other items visit our online store .(www.foryourpleasure.net/heather)
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