Comments for BedroomDivas http://www.bedroomdivas.com Adult Novelty Home Party Plan Directory Fri, 12 Mar 2010 04:38:20 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 Comment on Why is it important to use lubrication? Are there different kinds? by Katie Wise http://www.bedroomdivas.com/2008/04/why-is-it-important-to-use-lubrication-are-there-different-kinds/#comment-792 Katie Wise Wed, 29 Apr 2009 04:26:12 +0000 http://www.mybedroomdivas.dreamhosters.com/?p=62#comment-792 I am recommending a product that I do sell. I am not saying that the Shunga Toko Lube is good just because I sell it. We sell more then one lube. I am saying it is a great lube because it is. That and the Embrace are awesome lubes that are safe for womens bodies and do what they are suppose to do without getting that sticky, clumpy feeling. I am recommending a product that I do sell. I am not saying that the Shunga Toko Lube is good just because I sell it. We sell more then one lube. I am saying it is a great lube because it is.
That and the Embrace are awesome lubes that are safe for womens bodies and do what they are suppose to do without getting that sticky, clumpy feeling.

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]]> Comment on How Can I Achieve Orgasm Quicker? by lee esada http://www.bedroomdivas.com/2008/06/how-can-i-achieve-orgasm-quicker/#comment-781 lee esada Mon, 12 Jan 2009 09:42:12 +0000 http://www.mybedroomdivas.dreamhosters.com/?p=70#comment-781 well this is embarresing for me to ask. My girlfriend cums quicker than I do. How can cum quicker for her. I am attracted to her. Is it possible I am enjoying her to much and do not want to cum right away. I am 36 years old and never experienced this before. well this is embarresing for me to ask. My girlfriend cums quicker than I do. How can cum quicker for her. I am attracted to her. Is it possible I am enjoying her to much and do not want to cum right away. I am 36 years old and never experienced this before.

]]> Comment on When Does Sex Become a Chore? by Greg http://www.bedroomdivas.com/2008/12/when-does-sex-become-a-chore/#comment-780 Greg Sat, 03 Jan 2009 06:28:12 +0000 http://www.bedroomdivas.com/?p=163#comment-780 Toys can be a great addition to a healthy relationship or they can really help bring one out of a rut. Greg (A.K.A. The Toymaster) Toys can be a great addition to a healthy relationship or they can really help bring one out of a rut.

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]]> Comment on How Can I Achieve Orgasm Quicker? by Crystal Atnip http://www.bedroomdivas.com/2008/06/how-can-i-achieve-orgasm-quicker/#comment-223 Crystal Atnip Tue, 07 Oct 2008 14:45:35 +0000 http://www.mybedroomdivas.dreamhosters.com/?p=70#comment-223 I would suggest longer foreplay first off because only 25% of women can achieve orgasm through penetration. Also, be sure to keep the clitoris stimulated as well as maybe trying multiple stimulation by having your spouse to message the g-spot while performing oral sex or using the two fingers and a thumb method. He will use his index and middle finger to message your g-spot which is on the top wall of the vagina ( the belly button side) about 2 to 3 inches in depending on the individual. While using his thumb in a slow 2 to 10 o'clock circles. This should permit for a quicker orgasm. I would suggest longer foreplay first off because only 25% of women can achieve orgasm through penetration. Also, be sure to keep the clitoris stimulated as well as maybe trying multiple stimulation by having your spouse to message the g-spot while performing oral sex or using the two fingers and a thumb method. He will use his index and middle finger to message your g-spot which is on the top wall of the vagina ( the belly button side) about 2 to 3 inches in depending on the individual. While using his thumb in a slow 2 to 10 o’clock circles. This should permit for a quicker orgasm.

]]> Comment on Trying To Have A Baby by Crystal Atnip http://www.bedroomdivas.com/2008/06/trying-to-have-a-baby-2/#comment-222 Crystal Atnip Tue, 07 Oct 2008 14:24:24 +0000 http://www.mybedroomdivas.dreamhosters.com/?p=57#comment-222 The main thing that sticks out to me is that she should have an orgasm before him because there is a theory that a female orgasm can propel the male sperm through the uterus. I hope this helps. The main thing that sticks out to me is that she should have an orgasm before him because there is a theory that a female orgasm can propel the male sperm through the uterus. I hope this helps.

]]> Comment on Best Sexual Positions by Crystal Atnip http://www.bedroomdivas.com/2008/08/best-sexual-positions/#comment-221 Crystal Atnip Tue, 07 Oct 2008 14:20:35 +0000 http://www.bedroomdivas.com/?p=151#comment-221 This is dependent on so many different things because each couple is different. For instance a well endowed man with a rather sensitive spouse may want doggie style but doogie could be extremely painful for her since it gives him access to go further in the vagina and possible hitting the cervix. While if the man is on a shorter side this may be the preference of his spouse. I would suggest that you buy the Best Sex Positions book or similar and try different positions and discover for yourself which that you like the best. This is dependent on so many different things because each couple is different. For instance a well endowed man with a rather sensitive spouse may want doggie style but doogie could be extremely painful for her since it gives him access to go further in the vagina and possible hitting the cervix. While if the man is on a shorter side this may be the preference of his spouse. I would suggest that you buy the Best Sex Positions book or similar and try different positions and discover for yourself which that you like the best.

]]> Comment on Personal Grooming by Crystal Atnip http://www.bedroomdivas.com/2008/07/personal-grooming/#comment-220 Crystal Atnip Tue, 07 Oct 2008 14:15:25 +0000 http://www.mybedroomdivas.dreamhosters.com/?p=19#comment-220 I know many customers that I have spoken to prefer that their spouse to be shaven or well trimmed at least. My suggestions to make the job quicker is buy a set of trimmers to get the hairs closer to the skin so not to dull the razor as quickly. After trimming down to a easy to manage length, start shaving the direction of the grain of the hair using a shaving cream with Aloe. After going the direction of the hairs go against the grain to get everything smooth. I also would suggest using at least a 3 blade razor if not 4 to get a quicker smoother shave. Apply an after shave oil or lotion to the just shaved area. One suggestion to make the job less tedious is have your wife shave you and then return the favor. I know many customers that I have spoken to prefer that their spouse to be shaven or well trimmed at least. My suggestions to make the job quicker is buy a set of trimmers to get the hairs closer to the skin so not to dull the razor as quickly. After trimming down to a easy to manage length, start shaving the direction of the grain of the hair using a shaving cream with Aloe. After going the direction of the hairs go against the grain to get everything smooth. I also would suggest using at least a 3 blade razor if not 4 to get a quicker smoother shave. Apply an after shave oil or lotion to the just shaved area.

One suggestion to make the job less tedious is have your wife shave you and then return the favor.

]]> Comment on How Much Sex Is The Right Amount by Crystal Atnip http://www.bedroomdivas.com/2008/03/how-much-sex-is-the-right-amount/#comment-219 Crystal Atnip Tue, 07 Oct 2008 14:06:39 +0000 http://www.mybedroomdivas.dreamhosters.com/?p=38#comment-219 There is not right amount of sex for anyone every person is different and that is perfectly fine unless it is causing issues within your relationship. It also sounds like from your question that you may not be in tune with your sexual self. I would suggest taking time to get to know yourself sexually. Draw yourself a bath with candles and relax then continue the intimate night with yourself discovering your body. Don't feel odd it is your body if you do not know it how could you ever expect anyone to even your husband. Another issue that could be coming into play is your diet certain foods can starve you of your libido. I would suggest cutting out all processed sugars and preservatives which can help with so many other things as well. If these two things do not help you I would suggest speaking with a doctor or a psychologist because it could be physical problem or a mental block resurfacing. There is not right amount of sex for anyone every person is different and that is perfectly fine unless it is causing issues within your relationship. It also sounds like from your question that you may not be in tune with your sexual self. I would suggest taking time to get to know yourself sexually. Draw yourself a bath with candles and relax then continue the intimate night with yourself discovering your body. Don’t feel odd it is your body if you do not know it how could you ever expect anyone to even your husband.

Another issue that could be coming into play is your diet certain foods can starve you of your libido. I would suggest cutting out all processed sugars and preservatives which can help with so many other things as well.

If these two things do not help you I would suggest speaking with a doctor or a psychologist because it could be physical problem or a mental block resurfacing.

]]> Comment on How Can I Prolong Ejaculation by Crystal Atnip http://www.bedroomdivas.com/2008/01/how-can-i-prolong-ejaculation/#comment-218 Crystal Atnip Tue, 07 Oct 2008 13:56:14 +0000 http://www.mybedroomdivas.dreamhosters.com/?p=35#comment-218 I suggest that you begin building building up your kegel muscle by stopping urine mid stream starting off just once during urination then building up to a stop , go, stop, go routine. Also as you are getting out of bed in the morning and you have an erection start making it jump using your kegels. Along with strengthing your kegels that way also start doing your "homework" by masturbating and getting near ejaculation and pulling back til the feeling subsides then starting back. The first few times you may not last as long as you would like to but it will build up. This way you build up your kegels as well as desensitize your self some allowing yourself to last longer. Another suggestion is if you are in a monogamous relationship and both have been tested and birth control is in use is to start working toward multiple orgasm. This can be a tricky thing for men to achieve because you guys are extremely sensitive after orgasm. The first step in achieving multiples in my opinion is an understanding between to partners that you may become to sensitive and have to stop. Once you reach the first initial orgasm DON'T stop continue but only at a pace that is not to intense but good enough to help maintain erection. This can take many times to find the correct pace for yourself but don't give up you can find it and do it. Also keep your mind on positive sexual actives after orgasm other than I may not be able to or etc. I suggest that you begin building building up your kegel muscle by stopping urine mid stream starting off just once during urination then building up to a stop , go, stop, go routine. Also as you are getting out of bed in the morning and you have an erection start making it jump using your kegels.

Along with strengthing your kegels that way also start doing your “homework” by masturbating and getting near ejaculation and pulling back til the feeling subsides then starting back. The first few times you may not last as long as you would like to but it will build up. This way you build up your kegels as well as desensitize your self some allowing yourself to last longer.

Another suggestion is if you are in a monogamous relationship and both have been tested and birth control is in use is to start working toward multiple orgasm. This can be a tricky thing for men to achieve because you guys are extremely sensitive after orgasm. The first step in achieving multiples in my opinion is an understanding between to partners that you may become to sensitive and have to stop.

Once you reach the first initial orgasm DON’T stop continue but only at a pace that is not to intense but good enough to help maintain erection. This can take many times to find the correct pace for yourself but don’t give up you can find it and do it. Also keep your mind on positive sexual actives after orgasm other than I may not be able to or etc.

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